CARRIE, My thoughts and prayers are with you and you family. May God bless and keep you in your time of sorrow.look to the lord , and he will be your strength, seek him, and he will provide clarity in all of the unknown in the thingS we dont understand. he will direct your path. may you all bond together knowing that he is a perfect GOD,NEVER MAKING MISTAKES. LISTEN TO HIS VOICE. YOUR SISTER IN CHRIST ROBBYE.