Pam and I grew up together. Her mom and my mom were friends who went to school together lived next door to one another for many years. My mother was also named Betty. My mom Was called black betty and her mom red Betty. I lost contact with Pam when we moved away when I was 16. Pam was three years older than me. We both shared alot of heartache as kids...I remember her 16th birthday party vividly. I always looked up to her growing up because she was pretty and had the cutest nose. The last time I saw her we were in our 20's. I left Jacksonville many years ago. Just learned of her passing. I will always remember Pam and Tammy and their mother. Truly sorry for your loss. Angie Griffin